I really hate the words “personal transformation.”
It makes me think of Jeff Goldblum in 80’s movie “The Fly.”
Sick! It makes me cringe just thinking about it!
Why? Because Jeff Goldblum was creepy and the words themselves mean to change completely.
And what the hell is so wrong with us anyways that we need to change into another being?
And why do we even think that it would be better?
You my friend, were born perfect and whole.
It doesn’t mean that we don’t pick up a few unskillful behaviors, and sometimes do things that we feel bad about and regret.
That’s part of the path of being human and having free will.
But you don’t need to “transform” from who you are, you are just fine exactly as you are.
True change in your life comes from small consistent efforts with your behaviors, it’s not a weekend kind of thing no matter what they’re trying to sell you.
As someone who has been on this path for most of my life, I can tell you that it’s more like peeling off the layers that are no longer serving you to reveal who you truly are:
Light and possibility.
The layers come off slowly, sometimes painfully, like a slow Band-Aid.
Or sometimes it’s a quick insight that changes how you think and behave in a specific situation forever.
In all cases, it takes self-awareness, vulnerability, and a whole lot of courage to walk this path, and it’s the only way to get the life you truly want and become the person you were always meant to be.
And the other important part?
We don’t do it alone.
The Lone Ranger myth is just that, a myth.
We are not independent.
We are interdependent.
And we need each other, like we need oxygen.
The key is to find your people, who are also on this path and you can walk alongside each other.
Don’t worry, I’ve done the hard part for you and found those people.
You just need to join us.
If you haven’t already come join me in the Lightmaker’s Mastermind. You will get loving support from other women just like you who are walking the path of living better, and shine brighter.
Aaaand I have weekly office hours that you can get free coaching from me in the group. Yup, ask me anything.
You can do that right here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1620467418175337/
Even if you don’t join us, know that you are already whole and beautiful just the way you are, and you are loved.
Now, I’d love to hear from you. Does “The Fly” creep the hell out of you too? Or do you believe in transformation? Share your comments below, I love hearing from you!
We are beacons for each other. By shining our light we bring each other home to their own. Share this on Facebook, Tweet it out loud, and forward it to your friends.
You are a Lightmaker.
Love and Light,